But I'm Not Anxious
There is nothing more frustrating than someone telling you: "You have anxiety", when it doesn't feel like it. While it may be true, a person who is truly struggling with anxiety may instead hear: I don't believe you You are making this up You are crazy and acting irrationally All your tests have come back normal, you are fine You are not sick, you are anxious You need to calm down, just relax The things you are experiencing are not real It's embarrassing that you have come back again for help A lot of these thoughts stem from not only an ill mindset, but also from poor stigma against mental health. Acceptance The first, and hardest, part about anxiety is acceptance. The rough truth about mental health is that you must discover what came first... the chicken or the egg. Did anxiety come first, causing a lot of physical turmoil? Or did a physical illness occur first, causing a lot of anxiety? There is a long road ahead of trial & error as bot...